{"id":125,"date":"2023-04-07T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-04-07T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/china.chinaacheru.com\/wp\/?p=125"},"modified":"2025-11-02T08:36:19","modified_gmt":"2025-11-02T08:36:19","slug":"love-notes-dont-blame-it-on-anything-it-was-all-on-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chinaacheru.com\/staging\/love-notes-dont-blame-it-on-anything-it-was-all-on-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Love Notes: Don&#8217;t blame it on anything, it was all on you"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t\t\t<span class=\"imgPusher\" style=\"float:left;height:0px\"><\/span><span style=\"width:auto;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;clear:left;margin-top:0px\"><a><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.chinaacheru.com\/uploads\/1\/0\/1\/5\/10158091\/103631591-white-silhouette-of-feet-of-couple-having-sex-sign-simple-icon-vector-illustration-clip-art-isolated_orig.jpg\" style=\"margin-top: 5px;margin-bottom: 10px;margin-left: 0px;margin-right: 10px;border-width:1px;padding:3px;max-width:100%\" alt=\"Picture\" class=\"galleryImageBorder wsite-image\" title=\"Love Notes: Don&#039;t blame it on anything, it was all on you\"><\/a><span style=\"caption-side: bottom;font-size: 90%;margin-top: -10px;margin-bottom: 10px;text-align: center\" class=\"wsite-caption\"><\/span><\/span> <\/p>\n<div class=\"paragraph\"><font size=\"3\">Tonye Franklin<br \/>\u00a0<br \/>\u00a0<br \/>The definitions of \u2018relationship\u2019 might be clich\u00e9 yet cannot be underestimated, except the ones with \u2018open\u2019 in them.<br \/>\u00a0<br \/>Therefore a decision to be in a relationship should be backed by basic traits or ingredients that are the foundations on which it stands.<br \/>\u00a0<br \/>But in society today, it\u2019s easy to say these character traits are hardly instilled in the minds of a lot of people due to the appalling rate of broken marriages and failed relationships caused by \u2018cheating\u2019.<br \/>\u00a0<br \/>Especially how it has successfully been highly attributed to a particular gender over the years.<br \/>\u00a0<br \/>Truth is, whether one gender or all genders, cheating is still an intentional act of disrespect to your partner, yourself and your relationship.<br \/>\u00a0<br \/>Cheating is an independent choice of indiscipline; having zero control over your sexual urges and how or with whom you choose to satisfy them, which are the traits the first paragraph of this article refers to.<br \/>\u00a0<br \/>Although, excuses are given sometimes to justify the act which unfortunately has almost given it a more credible stand in an institution supposedly laid on a foundation of love, communication, trust and commitment.<br \/>\u00a0<br \/>It\u2019s important you note that this article doesn\u2019t sideline the possible temptations in a relationship and\/or in the union of marriages but it is more aimed at highlighting the fact that despite these challenges, the individual plays a major role in the outcome of events which is the ability to MAKE DECISIONS.<\/font><\/div>\n<hr style=\"width:100%;clear:both\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tonye Franklin\u00a0\u00a0The definitions of \u2018relationship\u2019 might be clich\u00e9 yet cannot be underestimated, except the ones with \u2018open\u2019 in them.\u00a0Therefore a decision to be in a relationship should be backed by basic traits or ingredients that are the foundations on which it stands.\u00a0But in society today, it\u2019s easy to say these character traits are hardly instilled [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_surecart_dashboard_logo_width":"180px","_surecart_dashboard_show_logo":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_orders":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_invoices":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_subscriptions":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_downloads":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_billing":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_account":true,"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-125","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":false,"thumbnail":false,"medium":false,"medium_large":false,"large":false,"1536x1536":false,"2048x2048":false},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"china","author_link":"https:\/\/chinaacheru.com\/staging\/author\/china\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Tonye Franklin\u00a0\u00a0The definitions of \u2018relationship\u2019 might be clich\u00e9 yet cannot be underestimated, except the ones with \u2018open\u2019 in them.\u00a0Therefore a decision to be in a relationship should be backed by basic traits or ingredients that are the foundations on which it stands.\u00a0But in society today, it\u2019s easy to say these character traits are hardly instilled&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chinaacheru.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/125","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chinaacheru.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chinaacheru.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chinaacheru.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chinaacheru.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=125"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/chinaacheru.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/125\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chinaacheru.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=125"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chinaacheru.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=125"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chinaacheru.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=125"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}